"Why are we talking about this?" I found myself asking this question today, as the people in my class began to talk about Song of Solomon then proceeded to quote it. Why is it becoming popular to talk about making out, groping, and sex? Should these things not be reserved for marriage, or should we follow and say "If everyone is doing it then I should be too"? I truly admire the people who reserve themselves for their husband or wife; I'm not talking of the people who wear a purity ring because the celebrities are wearing them, and then saying "it must be cool". No, I'm talking about the people who even without a ring you can tell they are pure, they're not messing around, nor do they want to.
So, what's happened why are we talking about sex like its normal to be doing it out of marriage? What's happened to our innocence? How many of you have heard of 13 year old girls having abortions, who has heard of children committing suicide because they where messing around then suddenly their boy/girlfriend broke up with them and now they feel unloved and unwanted? I'm not saying that we shouldn't talk about love! I'm saying we should talk about love in a pure form.
Innocence is not an easy subject to address, why? I feel like I could say so much more about not messing around, but how much do I know? I know a lot of things about myself and my beliefs but how much do I know about others and what they believe? What is this feeling of having no power; after all I am only one person. How can I change the mind set of others without causing pain to myself? The answer is there is no way. I know the path in front of me is hard and most definitely painful. But I will take it up, are you still on board? Or are you so too scared to continue?
If you are still with me, comment below saying something about a person who you are truly trying to help out. Remember not to take on too many people at first, this is hard! Start with learning about one person, just one for now.
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